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What do we love about "Into Time," the newest site from Web artist (and Lemondrop favorite) Rafael Rozendaal? Pretty colors? Simple geometry? Truth is, we're not entirely sure why we're so enthralled with the site, but we are. But Rozendaal's other sites that we've featured, "Into Time" is hypnotic, mysterious and just engaging enough to keep us absorbed for a lot longer than you might think.

Every week, the gentlemen over at GuySpeak answer questions from women the only way they know how: in guy style. Then they handpick some of their favorites and send them over to us here at Lemondrop to answer (read: fix) them in girl style. We call it GuySpeak/GirlSpeak. This week -- what do you do with a boyfriend who's wonderful but still lives at home?


Read on for our guy vs. girl advice.

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Mr. Right might not be the man you want long term, necessarily: how to fall in love with Mr. Good Enough. (YourTango)
Cooking bacon to a perfection is an art form in itself. Learn how to do it in the oven like a pro. (TheKitchn)

Amy Spencer is a dating expert and the author of "Meeting Your Half-Orange: An Utterly Upbeat Guide to Using Dating Optimism to Find Your Perfect Match" (Running Press). We asked her the dating questions that continue to baffle us.

Lemondrop asks: How can you tell if a guy is stringing you along?

Amy answers: My take is trust your gut. It's your radar for the wrong guy -- I call it your "wrong-dar" -- and it will tell you when you're being jerked around and not being treated as well as you deserve to be. If you're not feeling your sexiest, coolest, funniest, warmest, most natural self around a guy, something's not right.

If you feel yanked, you are. You deserve better. If he just wants to take things slow, a guy will say something like, "I don't have that much time to devote to a serious relationship just yet, so I can only hang out with you once a week." He should still make you feel special and cared for in the meantime. He'll let you know, for instance, if there's no one else and say something like, "You're the only one I'm dating, I just don't want to be boyfriend-girlfriend yet."

There's new news about what gets women turned on -- and what gets them off, which always piques our interest.

There's no better person to explain these orgasmic breakthroughs than our special guest blogger Ian Kerner, author of "She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman," out in paperback for the first time this week.

In fact, check back early and often -- during our countdown to Valentine's Day, that holiest of holy get-it-on holidays, the sex doctor will be in.

In fact, Kerner will be guest-blogging and offering his free advice -- including answers to your most pressing sex questions -- all week. For now, he shares four things that put the "Oh!" in orgasm.

1. Your brain needs to turn off for your orgasm to turn on. Researchers in the Netherlands found that the key to getting a woman to the heights of orgasmic bliss is a deep sense of relaxation -- and a lack of anxiety. All in the name of science, researchers at the University of Groningen scanned the brains of women and men while they were manually stimulated to orgasm by their partners. The scans showed that, for women, the parts of the brain responsible for processing fear, anxiety and emotion slowed down the more aroused they became, producing a trance-like state when they climaxed. Says Dr. Gert Holstege of women's sexual wiring: "What this means is that deactivation, letting go of all fear and anxiety, might be the most important thing, even necessary, to have an orgasm." Men's gray matter, on the other hand, showed far less change.

So, how you do turn off in order to turn on? More on that after the jump.

Everybody knows that Alt+Tab is your best friend on the job; let's be honest, who would get through the work day without a little Outlook-to-Facebook toggling?

The thing is, most of us try not to get caught. And we keep it PG-13. This banker who appeared on Australian news? Not so much. Even as his colleague chats him up on the other side of his monitor and cameras roll for the evening broadcast, his need for NSFW browsing remains unstoppable.

Best part? His facial expression when he turns around and realizes it might just be his last day at the office. ENJOY!

Want to get some love advice this Valentine's Day, but don't want to leave the comfort of your basement? Hop on over to Nerve.com.

Nerve asked three "World of Warcraft" players to answer questions about sex and love submitted by readers, just in time for the most romantic day of the year. (For n00bs, WoW is an MMORPG, which stands for Massively Multi-player Online Role-Playing Game. At last count, it had 11.5 million subscribers, and is the most popular MMORPG ever created.)

Janelle, Mike and Brooke (all avid WoW players in their 20s) were more than game to dole out love advice. It seems Nerve expected these three to nerd out on the questions (maybe answering "does not compute" while running to hide behind their avatars), but they offered sage, charming and useful advice to women who want to use vibrators in the bedroom, or men who like watching porn while they have sex.

Interested in dating a WoW player? Mike thinks you should. When asked if "Warcraft" has taught him anything about relationships, he replied, "The value of compromise, in game and out. In game, you learn that sometimes you need to put the priorities of others above yourself, like if you're raiding and another healer needs a new piece of equipment that would only be a small upgrade for you." Janelle noted that playing WoW with a significant other teaches you a lot about their inner nature, and that you should be wary of a boyfriend who gets jealous over your superior gear, or who runs to grab all the HP when you both need it.

While asking nerds for sex tips may seem counterintuitive, Brooke put it best: "People who spend a lot of time in front of the computer tend to have excellent imaginations -- the brain is our most powerful sexual organ."

Hear, hear!

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